(published by The Jakarta Post on 23 Feb 2010. Click here ) Is it true Indonesians are courteous and respect etiquette when in public? A friend of mine shared her story of riding in a public minivan to her office one morning. As usual, the driver thought he was in a Formula One race, careening through heavy traffic. At one stop, a man climbed on and promptly squeezed himself into the already-packed minivan. A minute later, he lit up a cigarette. Eyes half closed, he then blew straight into everyone else’s face. Most of the passengers that morning were young women going to work, including my friend. These young ladies had, of course, spritzed on their finest perfume before leaving home, only to have it drowned in the stench of tobacco. None of the passengers complained, but their frowning faces said it all. The man kept puffing away. Finally my friend ran out of patience. “Pak, could you put out your cigarette, please?” The man looked a bit surprise, smirked, then replied, “Why?” “Beca...
Life is beautiful, and also..., simple.